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Some forty years past I had to look up the word “apostasy.” In the Bible it refers to the church in the last days being influenced by faithlessness, liberalism and secularism. Sadly I have witnessed this trend gaining and now ...
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| No It’s Not A Relationship |
Sometimes we are so anxious to “belong” to someone that we try to escalate a few emails into a relationship. Well, I’m here to tell you no, it is not a relationship!
A relationship has to have a foundation. Mail created in cyberspace is not a foundation.
I have been online dating for...too long. And I run into people all of the time that want to commit and/or ask for a commitment within days of meeting online!
I remember one guy was making plans to relocate... (honest!) before he even knew my last name!
These are supposedly sound, normal people.
I blame it on being down right lonely and wanting companionship. It is kind of scary to think loneliness can drive a person to relocate to another state to start a new life with a total stranger.
I’m sorry, but no it is not a relationship! I don’t care how much wishful and positive thinking is going on...it still will not make a relationship.
We have to commit to taking the time to get to know the person. If the other person isn’t willing to wait...that is the first clue that this person is irresponsible and isn’t for you.
Before bringing anyone into your life make sure you have done all of you homework! If not, you are setting yourself up for serious problems.
Do not allow yourself to be pushed too far too fast. If it is the right relationship for you, waiting will not suddenly make it disappear.
Do not mislead your “love interest”. It is only fair to be straight forward, telling them that you would like to “work on developing” a relationship with them. But for now, you do not believe you are in a relationship.
Put yourself in position to “choose”...not always waiting to be “chosen”!
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