Have you ever found yourself wondering why men cheat or what on earth
men want in a woman?
Let me start by asking you:
Do you believe men like to have casual sex and are afraid of commitment?
Or that men would like to date many women rather than settle in one long term
relationship?
Do you think most men will cheat easily on their partner?
If any of these ring true for you then these beliefs you have about men may be getting in the way of you finding the right one.
So, would it be helpful if you REALLY knew how men think and what will make a man want to stick with you through thick and thin?
Here are my insider secrets:
SECRET NO.1: Men Need To 'FEEL' It For You To Commit And Stay Committed
Most men don't want to just sleep around. They want to find a woman they can have a long and loving relationship with.
Sure, they may be attracted to a girl in a bar but if he already has a strong connection with you he's unlikely to be tempted to stray.
Most men are extremely visual and feel a sense of physical attraction easily BUT and here's the key:
If you can develop that sense of DEEPER attraction with a man and show him you're a
woman of standards, who knows what she wants, goes for it and won't put up with second best from him then he'll be drawn to you EVERY TIME.
SECRET No.2: Men Are Scared Of Emotions
Men are far more sensitive than you may think they are. They just have a harder time showing it. They've been brought up to hide their emotions from an early age and 'act tough'.
This can make it hard for them to connect with a woman on an emotional level.
have you ever had your guy NOT want to argue?
Have you got so frustrated because he won't talk?
Did he just go quiet or worse still walk out of the room?
Men have a hard time understanding and dealing with their emotions, let alone those of their
partner so when you start on a topic that has a strong emotional basis he's in new territory.
Suddenly he’ll feel out of control and this is a SCARY place for a guy to be.
So if he’s ever come out with the 'Why do you have to be so DRAMATIC?' phrase (which is of course so frustrating), this is when you’re on dangerous ground, going nowhere and often simply at risk of having him feel pressured and running scared or out the door!
So, how can it be different?
If you can try and understand what's going on for him and show him how to express himself in a way that works for both of you you'll be on the right path.
Take the emotional LEAD with your man and show him you’re a woman he won’t want to let go of!
SECRET NO.3 Men Want To Be In A Relationship
Did you know that women cheat on men more often than the other way around?
SURPRISED?
Also, women are the ones breaking off relationships over 70% of the time.
So, what does this tell you?
Yep, men want to be in a relationship. But just like you they're NOT willing to be in one
if it just doesn't feel right or if everything seems like hard work.
So don’t let what’s happened in the past cloud what could be a great future. Enter every new relationship with a sense of freshness and leave the baggage from the past right there – in the past!
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http://blog.havefunfindingtheone.co.uk/blog/
About The Author:
I've discovered some amazing insights and I’m sharing all the all the tools and information it’s taken me years to create so that you can see what’s been keeping you single, and know how to find a great guy that is ready to love and be loved.
To learn more about what men really want in a woman get your copy of my book ‘The Secrets to Attracting and Keeping an Amazing Man’ right here
http://www.havefunfindingtheone.co.uk/salesSecretsToFinding.php
Sharon Vickery
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