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Should You Date While Trying to Get Back Your Ex?
I know this is not popular advice... but I would definitely say, "YES"!
Now, I know this will go against what you're thinking! It's going against what your logic and your emotions will be telling you when you're so in love with someone else. Because your fear is that you'll anger your ex further... or make them more distant.
But when you think about it... the only reason they could become angry is because... they still care about you!
Right?
Why would they possibly be upset if they didn't care?
You see, when you start dating someone else, you're saying, "I'm OK with the breakup. I'm happy and I'm moving on".
It's at this point that your ex will realize they are going to lose you forever! It doesn't matter what you've said up until this point... you could have told your ex thousands of times you'll find someone else... but when you actually go out on a date with someone else, that action speaks louder than any words you can say.
It shows your ex that you're moving on and you may be gone forever.
Even if they seem upset, in fact, especially when they seem upset... this is the position you want to create if you want to get them chasing you.
This is psychological pull... instead of you pushing.
Make sense?
And one more thing... dating someone else changes YOU on the inside too.
It gets rid of that 'irrational fear' that you'll end up all alone.
It also temporarily refocuses your attention on someone else other than your ex. And this is a much healthier position to come from when trying to attract someone...
Yes?
So, even though I know it'll be tough... please go on a few dates.
It's really good for you and will speed up your reunion.
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